Let’s suppose that you were able, every night, to dream any dream you wanted to dream. And that you could, for example, have the power within one night to dream 75 years of time, or any length of time you wanted to have.
 And you would, naturally, as you began on this adventure of dreams, you would fulfil all your wishes. You would have every kind of pleasure you could conceive . And after several nights of 75 years of total pleasure each you would say “Well, that was pretty great. But now let’s have a surprise. Let’s have a dream which isn’t under control. Where something is going to happen to me that I don’t know what it’s going to be.” And you would dig that and come out of it and say “Wow, that was a close shave, wasn't it?” And then you would get more and more adventurous, and you would make further and further gambles as to what you would dream, and finally, you would dream where you are now. You would dream the dream of living the life that you are actually living today.

That would be within the infinite multiplicity of choices you would have
and when you are ready to wake up, you'er going to wake up. and If you're not ready you're going to stay pretending that you're just a "poor little me

If you awaken from this illusion and you understand that black implies white, self implies other, life implies death or shall I say death implies life, you can feel yourself – not as a stranger in the world, not as something here on probation , not as something that has arrived here by fluke - but you can begin to feel your own existence as absolutely fundamental

What you are basically, deep, deep down, far, far in, is simply

the fabric and structure of existence itself

Alan Watts